Monday, February 4, 2013
Internet Communication
The
Internet has changed the way we communicate in a big way. I would say that it
brought us closer to family and friends, yet made the friendships we have more
impersonal. It is nice to be able to stay in touch with friends or family
through their Facebooks. For example I get to see my family members and
pictures of their children on facebook, which makes me feel as if I see them
more than I do. I talk to people that I don’t normally see a lot in person
through facebook, which makes me feel like I still keep in touch with them. I
would agree that we choose to email rather than talk on the phone because it
makes it more convenient for everyone, but does make it less personal. You can
take your time with responding rather than talking on the phone and getting the
conversation over with quickly. I believe that Skype is useful rather than
visiting in person if the locations are future away, which makes Skype a
wonderful thing. Friendship is very cheap now for the fact that we all have
over 200 facebook friends with everyone who lives in our area. These days, when you say
that someone is your “facebook friend” that doesn’t necessarily mean you are
their friend in real life. Sometimes we will see people on our newsfeed that we
don’t necessarily care to see information about because we might have only met
them once in our life.
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Hi Melanie,
ReplyDeleteI agree that the number of FB friends you have has very little to do with how many of those people are your close intimate friends.
I have been thinking about how many of us consider e-mail to be less personal than a phone call, because then you are actually speaking to the person. But, one of my closest friends and I have never talked on the phone. When we lived close, we made plans via e-mail or in person. Now that we live hours apart, we only send e-mail, and they are as close to a real conversation as you can have on paper - very personal.
I guess it really depends on the relationship you have with someone how personal or impersonal any of your communications might be.